You do that by getting used to doing things on your own without the approval of other people, without any validation.
By doing so you will prevent suffering and yes will loose the form of happiness that comes from ego when other people feed your ego, but your life will be just as happy and without suffering at all.
do not attach yourself to people,
stop comparing yourself to people because when someone is better than you you suffer.
There are many spiritual teachers telling people to drop the ego, but actually the whole thing is simple, you know you need to accept the ideea that you are not more special than anybody else is, yes you are unique but not special, everybody is special in their own way, so you are not better or worse than anybody else.
By doing so you will prevent suffering and yes will loose the form of happiness that comes from ego when other people feed your ego, but your life will be just as happy and without suffering at all.
do not attach yourself to people,
stop comparing yourself to people because when someone is better than you you suffer.
There are many spiritual teachers telling people to drop the ego, but actually the whole thing is simple, you know you need to accept the ideea that you are not more special than anybody else is, yes you are unique but not special, everybody is special in their own way, so you are not better or worse than anybody else.
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